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  • anatomy lessons (weekly report)

    February 9th, 2024

    I’ve been re-watching “Grey’s Anatomy” as kind of a background show for me while I do chores or work, but it’s really hard not to get sucked into the drama and the characters. I think I’m getting to the part where things really start to go off the rails and the original cast is pretty much gone, so I’m wondering at what point it will really become just background noise. “Anatomy Lessons” is also a vague reference to The Goldfinch, which I’ll talk about next—I just thought it was a funny little connection.

    reading

    I read a little more this week! I started Donna Tartt’s The Goldfinch and I know this is gonna take me a while to read, but it is really gorgeous so far. I’m kind of getting Last Samurai vibes from it (another book I adore)—both have a narrator who is a young boy that shares his mother’s fascination with visual arts. I’m speaking super generally about both but either way I’m really looking forward to continuing with The Goldfinch.

    On the side, I’ve been reading through the manga series Wotokoi: Love Is Hard For Otaku. I got a box set of the full series over the holidays (a gift to myself 💅) because I love the anime and have been wanting to read more. It has not disappointed so far, it’s just super light-hearted and fun.

    eating

    Me and my mom tried some special holiday drinks at Helena Avenue Bakery—the “Lovestruck Latte” (white chocolate, raspberry, and espresso) and the “Love You So Matcha” (pink rose milk and matcha)—and they were both so good!

    playing

    Still playing Black Clover M. I got Yami! But it took me a little bit of extra effort. And $15.

    obsessing

    For some reason I’ve got it in my head that I want to knit on top of crocheting. So that’s been on my mind. I’ve also been contemplating a new water bottle, I’ve had the same Hydroflask for years (it is a very well-loved gift) and I’m being influenced by all the water bottle stuff I see on TikTok. Currently, I’m considering the Owala FreeSip, it’s very cute.

    recommending

    I caught an early screening of “Lisa Frankenstein” with some friends and it was super fun! It felt like if “Heathers” was told through a Tim Burton-esque lens. Perfect for lovers of romantic comedy and a bit of dark humor.

    treating

    I’m getting treated for fancy sushi dinner tonight by my husband, so I’m excited for that!

  • sunshine + ocean views (weekly report)

    February 2nd, 2024

    Moving back to California meant that I’d be able to take more frequent walks. That hasn’t been the case lately in January, I’ve been enjoying cozy, more gloomy days indoors, but we had a bit of much-needed sunshine this week. I’m writing this on a Thursday and it rained a lot last night so it’s a bit more gloomy today. I’m probably not going to go for a walk, but I’m gonna take advantage of it by spending some time with a book.

    reading

    I haven’t been reading much this week. I’m still in the front half of Stephen King’s Fairy Tale, but I haven’t been dying to pick it up. When I do pick it up, I’m interested, but it feels so BIG. I may DNF it for now and try to read something else.

    I’ve also been reading One Piece, and I probably will be for a long while. I just finished the Alabasta Arc in case anyone’s wondering 🙂

    eating

    Kin Bakeshop’s lemon pesto brioche donut (yes a donut) + Secret Bao’s udon carbonara.

    playing

    Black Clover Mobile LOL, there’s a special rate-up event going on right now and I really want to summon Yami.

    obsessing

    I’m always on the hunt for my next crochet project even though I’m in the middle of a make. Currently, I’ve been contemplating some smaller projects to break up my current one making myself a new beanie and crochet scrunchies (I have a bunch of hair elastics that would be perfect to use!!), so if I actually start something I will update.

    recommending

    For the 50th time, I’ve recommended Nina Lacour’s Yerba Buena to someone who asked what they should read. It’s just so good—easy to read, yet poignant and heartrending. The setting is also close to my heart, as it takes place partially in Los Angeles and Long Beach.

    treating

    After a long search, I finally found a copy of The Golden Compass at the thrift store. I’ve read the first 30 pages via library rental on my Kindle, but I needed more time and ever since then, I told myself I’d read it when I could find a copy at the thrift store so… it is Time.

  • Comparing and Contrasting “The Dead Romantics” and “Book Lovers”

    May 3rd, 2023

    Ashley Poston’s The Dead Romantics and Emily Henry’s Book Lovers are contemporary romance novels, both released in 2022. I happened upon The Dead Romantics at Barnes and Noble just after it was released. Poston’s novel hooked me with a quick, couldn’t-be-more-than-500 words prologue, where the narrator talks about hiding their fan fiction in the baseboards of their childhood home, so I bought it the same day. Months later, I saw Book Lovers in the library and decided to borrow it after seeing Henry’s name all over my TikTok FYP for hits such as Beach Read and People We Meet on Vacation. 

    Reading both novels consecutively turned out to be an Experience for me. Not only were these books released just a month apart from each other, but also I had a strange sense of deja vu while reading Book Lovers so soon after The Dead Romantics because they felt so similar to me in terms of the plot and characters:  

    • In The Dead Romantics, New York-based, unlucky-in-love ghostwriter Florence Day is suddenly whisked away to her small, southern hometown after her father’s death. There, while she deals with her family’s antics, she unexpectedly (ahem, supernaturally) runs into an editor she’d previously met in New York, Ben. 
    • In Books Lovers, New York-based, unlucky-in-love literary agent Nora Stephens is suddenly whisked away to a small, southern town for a vacation with her sister. There, while she deals with her sister’s antics, she unexpectedly runs into an editor she’d previously met in New York, Charlie. 

    Okay, so I’ll admit I’ve kind of glossed over the different nuances and details to make a point, but at their hearts, both books are romance novels set in small, southern towns. When we look at the heroines of each novel, we find certain similarities, but definitely more differences:  

    • Florence is a NYC-based ghostwriter for legendary romance writer, Ann Nichols, who also acts as a liaison between Ann and her publisher. She’s an introvert, quirky and mousey, and just came out of a relationship with someone she considered “the one.” 
    • Nora is an NYC-based literary agent who is often compared to a shark because of the way she does business. She has a sleek, platinum blond bob, and loves her Peleton—the embodiment of what many think of as a powerful, single career woman. She also happens to love books and her sister, and also just came out of a relationship. 

    Both characters are in the NYC publishing world and both are reeling from recent heartbreak, so even if they do have different traits in the end, they gave off the same “resigned-at-being-alone” energy to me. Also, both novels pair them with tall, dark, and brooding male love interests with hearts of gold who are both book editors (Benji Andor in The Dead Romantics and Charlie Lastra in Book Lovers), which I found delightful in terms of the phenomenon of “the female gaze.” 

    And honestly, this is kind of where the big similarities between both books end. There’s another phenomenon I’d been thinking about when reading these so close together—when similar media are released at almost the exact same time in history. The movies “A Bug’s Life” and “Antz” are one example that comes straight to mind. Though some have their opinions about which one is recognizably better than the other in cases like this, when it comes to The Dead Romantics and Book Lovers, there are differentiating details in both novels that I really enjoyed.   

    In The Dead Romantics, the modern fantasy element, a.k.a the powers Florence inherited from her father, is used in a way that really resonated with me. At times, it feels a bit wishy-washy and too mystical at times, and I wish there was a little more thought into the mechanics of it, but overall, I liked how it tied into Ben helping Florence feel a little braver and be more present. I also really enjoyed the side characters in this one—Florence’s family is so warm and fun, and everyone in the town felt like a pleasant mish-mash of the different types of people you’d expect to find in a wayward town off the beaten path.  

    In Book Lovers, Henry’s small twist on the idea of an unlucky-in-love, bookish person was a nice, new flavor to read. Instead of the shy, awkward bookworm I’ve read about in many novels, Nora is sharp and take-no-prisoners, which is really fun to read in terms of point of view and also plays into the really fun, spicy dynamic between Nora and Charlie. Book Lovers also has quite a big side-plot involving Nora’s sister, Libby, and while Libby wasn’t exactly my favorite character, I enjoyed reading about how Libby and Nora’s late mother contributed to the Nora that we know in the book. 

    So! Why did I do this? I couldn’t get it out of my mind after reading both. And it’s not that I liked one more than the other (though you may have your own opinions after reading this) but I thought it’d be fun to pick these two books apart and figure out what was the same, what was different, what I liked, and what I didn’t. The books may be similar, but there will always be a need for books like this—delightful, romantic romps that give me the happy ending I want to read. 

    Get your own copies of The Dead Romantics and Book Lovers on Bookshop now!

  • “Winter’s Orbit” by Everina Maxwell

    March 9th, 2023

    🪐 In Everina Maxell’s 2021 debut novel, Winter’s Orbit, Prince Kiem, the black sheep of the Empire’s royal family, is married off to Count Jainan, a widower and political representative of his planet, in order to stabilize interplanetary treaties. As they navigate the ups and downs of their forced together-ness and unpeel the layers of Jainan’s past, they also discover something they weren’t supposed to: a conspiracy to embroil the Empire in an all-out war.

    I wasn’t sure what to expect when I started reading, but this book had me glued to my Kindle way past my bedtime with its soapy romance and twisty political thrills. Here are some of my personal highlights on Winter’s Orbit! 

    • Yessir, we have a good, ol’ fashioned arranged marriage trope! You’ll love this if you can handle a slow burn with a bit of miscommunication and misunderstanding. It really depends on how it’s handled for me, but this novel is paced really well, where the will-they-won’t-they dynamic is fun and satisfying to read. It’s never too slow and frustrating or too fast and unearned.  
    • I was endeared to Kiem and Jainan from the first page. They are just so, so incredibly loveable. Kiem is a little reckless, very wry, and oozes charm all while wanting to be a good, considerate husband. Then, there’s Jainan (my fave, my starshine), who is gentle and intelligent and cautious and burdened by his past in heartbreaking ways that are revealed as the book progresses. They don’t know how badly they need each other in the beginning, and it’s so delightful to read about the ways they grow together.
    • Reading this feels like reading sci-fi lite™. By this I mean that, yes, I would consider this sci-fi because of the setting—we’ve got space ships, treaties between planets, encrypted bracelets that hold all of our information, etc. But these aspects of the novel felt so secondary to the character dynamics, the romance, and even the interplanetary politics. And I say this knowing that perhaps my view of sci-fi as a literary genre is less nuanced than it should be, but the novel just felt very grounded and easy to follow for something that takes place in space (P.S. Does anyone have sci-fi recs for me?). 

    If any of this is sparking your curiosity, I definitely recommend giving Winter’s Orbit a read! I was able to find a copy at my local library, but you can also find it on Bookshop or any other book retailer you like! 

  • My 2022 Reading Awards

    December 30th, 2022

    📚 It’s the last week of 2022, so I thought I’d share a few superlatives and thoughts about some of my favorite reads this year.

    The Critically Acclaimed Fave: Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin

    I feel like everyone has talked about this book, and by everyone, I specifically mean John Green on his TikTok account. But anyways, I absolutely loved this book and think it’s worthy of all the attention it’s getting. It’s set in the 90’s and the characters are video game developers with a complicated friendship that spans a lifetime. I’d recommend it to people who love contemporary literature, video game references, non-linear narratives, and some messy relationships/romance.

    The Personal Fave: The House in the Cerulean Sea by TJ Klune

    This was an absolutely charming read, and it had everything I could ever ask for in a book—a charmingly messy orphanage with children who have dangerous powers, an endearing main character who undergoes an important transformation, a sweet, budding romance. The characters are just the tiniest little beans, and I want to put them all in my pocket.

    An Unexpected Discovery: “The Elements of Cadence Duology” by Rebecca Ross

    I read both A River Enchanted and A Fire Endless for review on Southern Review of Books, and this is probably some of my favorite fantasy reading in a long while. It’s set in a world of Scottish-inspired mythology, with two ancient, warring families living on either side of an isolated island filled with fae and spirits. It felt super unique in terms of lore and world-building and I absolutely loved the characters in this one too.

    By An Author I’ve Read Before: Vanessa Yu’s Magical Paris Tea Shop by Roselle Lim

    I love, love, love Roselle Lim. If I could be an author, I’d be her. She is able to combine Asian American culture and urban fantasy into her books so well, and I adore how each of her stories seems so centered on both place, family, and food. Because of this, her books always feel like an indulgence, and this book set in Paris seemed like the absolute peak of it.

    The Manga Pick: Jujutsu Kaisen by Gege Akutami

    2022 is the year I started subscribing to Shonen Jump specifically to read Jujutsu Kaisen (JJK) after watching JJK 0 in theaters in the spring. Set in modern-day Japan, JJK is about a community of curse users who dispel demons across the country. Characters are very much disposable (be warned) and the action can be a bit complex, but I find myself consistently thrilled and terrified with each new chapter every week.

    A Book I Haven’t Finished Yet But Know It’s Gonna Be Tops for Me: The Kudzu Queen by Mimi Herman

    I’m currently reading this for review too, and while the holidays have slowed up my progress, I’m very much enjoying this period novel about a mysterious crop revival in the South and it’s firecracker leading lady, Mattie.

    TBR That I’m Looking Forward To in 2023: Yerba Buena by Nina LaCour

    I’ve seen this one recommended enough of TikTok, but I really wasn’t interested in reading it until picking it up on a whim in Barnes and Noble during a 50% hardback book sale and reading the first few pages. The prose was gorgeous and promising and the plot seems soapy and dramatic, all of which I very much look forward to.


    Thanks so much for reading! If you’re interested, you can check out the full list of these books on Bookshop.

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